Stop Hoping a Narcissist will change. Holding onto hope can lead to you wasting a lot of time
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
4.9 • 1.2K Ratings
🗓️ 1 April 2022
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Summary
On episode 325 of THE NARCISSISTS' CODE I tell you why you should Stop Hoping a Narcissist will change. Holding onto hope can lead to you wasting a lot of time.
Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people welcome to another episode of the Narcissist |
| 0:04.2 | Code. I'm your favorite self-aware Narcissist. Mr. Lee Hammack better known as |
| 0:09.0 | mental illness across all social media platforms. This is the first time seeing |
| 0:13.3 | my face or hear my voice. I may diagnose Narciss and I use my platform to raise |
| 0:17.8 | awareness for NPD, hear more people in the therapy, light myself, and then also |
| 0:21.6 | validate the victims and survivors of said disorder. So today's episode is |
| 0:25.7 | going to be about hope. Hoping a Narcissist will change. Hoping a Narcissist will |
| 0:31.2 | go to therapy. Hoping that they will appreciate you the way you deserve to be |
| 0:36.0 | appreciated. Correct. Hope. Hope. Hope. So I say this all the time, y'all. Missed |
| 0:40.7 | placed hope is a very, very dangerous thing. It can get you hurt. Missed |
| 0:46.1 | placed hope can keep you in a toxic, unhealthy situation, unhealthy |
| 0:51.1 | relationship, unhealthy parent, parent daughter, mother daughter, father son, |
| 0:56.1 | father daughter, mother son, dynamic. It just can because you're hoping against |
| 1:01.3 | hope. Like I know people just like I don't want to give up on them. I don't want to, |
| 1:04.6 | you know, what if I'm wrong? What if they're not a Narcissist? You know, I hope that |
| 1:09.2 | they see my worth and my value in things like that. Like yeah, you can hope |
| 1:15.6 | against hope. I know a lot of people are believers in things like that. I don't |
| 1:19.2 | consider myself a Christian, but I am a believer in God. I really, really |
| 1:22.7 | believe in God. And but I just feel like a lot of times like if you are hoping |
| 1:27.6 | against, if you are hoping that they will change and recognize your worth and |
| 1:31.7 | recognize your value in things like that, you're going to end up in a very, |
| 1:35.3 | very untenable situation that you, it's going to be very, very hard for you to |
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