Stop Giving It All Away — Make Her Work for You... if You Love Her
Knowledge For Men
Andrew Ferebee
4.5 • 704 Ratings
🗓️ 9 April 2025
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
You’re chasing her approval while abandoning your purpose. Over-giving. Over-apologizing. Over-performing. All to keep her happy—while your masculine edge quietly dies.
In this raw, unfiltered episode, we expose the truth about men who give too much and lead too little. You’re not here to beg. You’re here to build, to lead, to decide. If she hasn’t earned your loyalty—why are you handing over your crown?
This is your wake-up call. Stop crawling. Stand the f*** up. Hit play, burn the mask, and reclaim your power. The Grounded Man doesn’t chase—he chooses.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Knowledge for Men podcasts where strong men come to rise as grounded leaders, lovers, and creators of their world. |
| 0:07.0 | This is the next level. |
| 0:09.0 | Stop giving it all away. Make her work for you. You're building her a pedestal out of the bricks of your own self-respect. Let's stop pretending this as romantic. Let's call it what it is. Self-betrayal dressed up in flowers and favors. She says jump and you don't just ask how high. You launch like a rocket hoping she notices and claps. If you're single, you're overextending. Canceling plans, |
| 0:39.0 | changing who you are, performing like a circus act for a woman who hasn't earned even a fraction |
| 0:43.9 | of your loyalty. If you're in a relationship, you've become the emotional butler, always available, |
| 0:49.3 | always agreeable, always sacrificing, not because it builds love and respect, but because you're scared to rock the boat and create conflict. |
| 0:56.7 | Scared you'll pull away, even if you stop bending, scared to speak your truth, scared to lead. |
| 1:01.3 | Meanwhile, you've got the power to build kingdoms, to lead people, to leave a legacy, to become the kind of man who changes entire bloodlines. |
| 1:09.2 | And yet you're pouring that power. |
| 1:10.8 | And to keeping a woman happy, he doesn't even respect your backbone, your values, your vision. |
| 1:15.5 | You were built for mission, leadership, fire. |
| 1:18.3 | You're out here over apologizing because she caught an attitude over your tone. |
| 1:21.8 | That's not love. |
| 1:22.7 | That's not peace. |
| 1:23.5 | That's spiritual castration with a kiss on the forehead. |
| 1:26.2 | You've confused approval with connection. |
| 1:28.8 | You've mistaken compliance for intimacy. You've traded your masculine edge for fake harmony and now |
| 1:34.7 | you're bleeding out silently. Whether you're dating or married, this is for you. Because devotion |
| 1:40.2 | without standards isn't love. It's just desperation in disguise, and it's time to rip the mask off. |
| 1:46.0 | You're not here to beg, you're not here to please, you're here to build, lead, protect, and decide. |
| 1:52.0 | This one's gonna make you uncomfortable. Good. It's so needed today. |
| 2:00.0 | The biggest unspoken truth in modern relationships. |
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