Stop changing to change the narcissist, they think you are the problem.

The Mental Healness Podcast

Lee Hammock

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9 • 1.2K Ratings

🗓️ 1 July 2021

⏱️ 14 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Stop trying to change the narcissist, because we truly believe that you are the issue. Narcissists want you to change not the other way around.

Welcome to The Narcissists' Code. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness

You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	You want to make a podcast? Spotify's got a platform that lets you make one super easily,
0:04.4	then distribute it everywhere and even earn money, all in one place for free. It's called
0:09.2	Spotify for Podcasts and here's how it works. Spotify for Podcasts lets you record and edit
0:14.1	podcasts right from your phone or computer so no matter what your set of it's like, you can
0:18.4	start creating today. Like when you finish my podcast, you can start recording your own. Then,
0:22.8	you can distribute your podcasts regularly to Spotify and everywhere else podcasts are here.
0:27.6	Video podcasts are also available on Spotify as well. With Spotify for Podcasts, you can earn
0:32.4	money in a variety of ways, including ads and podcast subscriptions. And all of the best,
0:37.2	it's totally free with no catch. Ever since I personally discovered Spotify for Podcasts,
0:42.7	it has changed my life and allowed me to change the life of thousands and thousands of people.
0:47.3	I highly recommend you give it a try. Download the Spotify for Podcasts app or go to www.spodify.com
0:54.3	Podcasts to get started.
1:24.4	Whatever is to bring awareness to mental health disorders and to validate the survivors and the
1:28.9	victims of this abuse from these disorders. Today's episode is going to be about why you stop trying
1:35.3	to change the narcissist. You can't like, I know people ask me, can you change my narcissist?
1:40.2	Can I change my narcissist in my life? I love her. I love him. Stop trying to change somebody that
1:46.4	thinks that you are the issue. You try to change the narcissist, you try to give them the therapy,
1:51.2	what not based on my story, based on stories and survivors and stuff like that.
1:54.9	Hey, we have a 1% success rate on getting narcissists into therapy. Everybody wants to be part of
2:00.0	that 1%. But what a lot of people fail to realize is that you try to get a narcissist to therapy.
2:06.2	They think you need to go to therapy. I don't think you don't know how many. I'm doing one on
2:10.6	ones with people over Zoom and via phone calling and whatnot. And you can be surprised how many people
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Lee Hammock, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Lee Hammock and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.