Stop Believing these Dating Myths with Jared & Jordana
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 14 June 2022
⏱️ 63 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, hosts of Betches’ U Up? Podcast', or as I like to call them, the mom and dad of modern dating. We discuss whether or not there’s truth to the most common dating phrases we hear including “you’ll find someone when you stop looking,” “there’s someone out there for everyone,” “you have to love yourself before you can be loved by someone else,” and more. Later, we answer listener questions about vulnerability, overcoming nervousness and date anxiety, determining your dealbreakers (and sticking to them), if women wrongly read into situations like meeting the friends, and how to make sure you’re on the same page as the person you’re dating.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.2 | Hey guys, it's Lana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:11.9 | Today we have Jared Freed and Jordana Abraham on the podcast. |
| 0:16.2 | If you do not know who they are, you need to know who they are. |
| 0:19.5 | They are the co-hosts of Betches U-Up |
| 0:21.8 | podcast. Jordana is a former co-host of Betch's Brides. She now has a new podcast called |
| 0:27.3 | Oversharing. And Jared also hosts J-Train. He is a comedian. He's done a million and a half |
| 0:34.7 | live shows. He's done a million and a half other things as well, |
| 0:38.1 | including recently giving a TED Talk. He has a comedy special out on Netflix and many, |
| 0:43.3 | many more things. If I were to read off all of the things that Jared and Jordana have done |
| 0:48.8 | in their lives, in their careers, in the dating world, even, that would take up the entire episode. |
| 0:54.7 | So I'm not going to do that, even though I kind of just did a little bit. |
| 0:58.0 | But today's episode is great. |
| 0:59.3 | We play a fun new game called Truth or Myth, where I posted on the seeing other people |
| 1:04.3 | Instagram, cough, cough, go follow if you're not following a bunch of polls of common dating |
| 1:10.7 | phrases. And I ask people if they think that if they're true or if they're not following a bunch of polls of common dating phrases. And I ask people if they think |
| 1:13.3 | that if they're true or if they're myths. Some like you have to love yourself before you can be |
| 1:18.4 | loved by someone else. Opposites tracked. Time heals all wounds and so on. So really fun game. |
| 1:24.3 | I had Jared and Jordana share what they thought if they thought it was true or a myth. |
| 1:28.2 | And we guessed what you guys voted and what the majority voted. And so I shared those results as well. Really fun game. So make sure you're following for more things like that. Also, don't forget, if you have not yet given a five-star rating on Spotify and you are listening on your Spotify app on your phone, please scroll up to the top and do that if you are listening to an apple podcast and you have not yet given a five-star rating on Spotify and you are listening on your Spotify app on your phone. Please scroll up to the top and do that. If you are listening to an Apple podcast and you have not yet given a five-star rating and a lovely review, please scroll to the bottom of the Seeing Other People show page and do that. Again, make sure you're following on Instagram. On TikTok, it's at Ilana Dunn. On Instagram, it's at seeing other people. Also at Alana Dunn, if you want to follow everywhere. |
| 2:04.1 | Some little fun fact about me that I think you guys don't know that has been very relevant |
| 2:09.3 | in my life lately is that I'm almost always sick. |
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