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out of it and there was no fee. Brilliant. That's straight on my to-do list. Find out more at business.gov.com. Eligibility criteria apply. Dr. Joel. Yes, sir. Welcome to the table, man. Man, thank you. I finally made it to the table. Finally made it. First time. Yes, sir. You know, We don't need to introduce you, man.

You are, You are Dr. Joel Tubman. And I want to get straight into it. You have a new book coming out called The Fight to Find Yourself. Yes, sir. And I want to say thank you up front, bro, for this book. Because you mentioned in your book, and I have notes here.

Yes, sir. Because I was like, oh, this is good. You mentioned in your book that many people are

pretending and do not know their true selves. That's a statement that came from the truth, me.

I pretended for a very, very long time. And I think

pretending comes from, it's sad to say, but we have even preached it, you know, fake it to you

make it. And I'm not blaming that on the church. I'm not going to blame it on the church,

but that has been a statement, a colloquialism from our church to fake it to you make it. And here's what we look at. When you do that in any realm, whether it's in church or whether you do it in your family and your personal life, you foreclose on your own identity. Foreclosure is a term that I know you are very aware of it when it comes to money. Foreclosure is simply I don't have the money to take care of the asset.

So if I don't have the money to take care of the asset, the asset is gone.

The same thing with my life.

If I don't have the attention and the focus to pay what needs to be paid for my identity,

I foreclose on who I'm supposed to be.

And I end up becoming what I create to have some form of sustainability within whatever

culture I'm trying to stay in.

For instance, whether it's, I want to look a certain way with money or with my clothing.

I want to present myself a certain way with females or males.

We put on an identity and at the expense of losing who we are and some never finding who we are.

So here's what happens.

Here's what happens.

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