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Sometimes you say we shouldn't have negative conversations in front of children

We should shield them we should protect them

But sometimes it's in their best interest to know who's good for them and who's not good for them

Which uncle to stay away from which brother to stay away from sometimes not every family situation is ideal

You know and sometimes parents don't want to hear sometimes children come and say you know my brother did this

Or my sister did this or this one did this or this and he's I don't want to hear it

Stop talking

I don't want to deal with anything, you know a friend of mine used to say back

He was from Algeria and used to say that they you know

They have joined family system so they've got the guy living there his wife is living there

Their kids are living there his brothers living there his wife and their kids

There's like 30 kids in the house and there's like four or five different couples and they're all fighting and all kinds of

Drama is happening all day in the house

But then the grandfather walks home and everybody's happy all of a sudden

All the problems are gone because the grandfather had a policy if anybody has any fight

I'm gonna line all of you up and slap all of you the father's the mother's the children everybody's gonna get slapped

So by the time the grandpa came home all the problems in the family are resolved. That's clearly not as long

Good, but it apparently works for their family

The idea of being sometimes we don't want to hear it or we don't want to deal with a conflict that actually

Exists sometimes there are people members of our family that have a problem that have an anger problem that have a jealousy problem

That have a verbal abuse problem

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