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Hello my beautiful, beautiful podcast family. How are y'all doing?

Man, I am so excited to be on here with you today. I am real talk keelm, and man, I'm just thankful to be on here with you today.

If you want to know all about me, if you're new to my page, welcome.

I'm the mom of two boys, Lincoln Presley and Morgan Scotland, they're 24 and 26. I passed for a church right here in Atlanta, Georgia. It's called Limitless Church.

It's actually in Fayetteville, Georgia. And man, we'd love to have you if you're ever here.

I've got an app that you can put on your phone, it's real talk keelm. I'm on all the social media pages as real talk keelm, so hey, stay connected to me.

You know, we are in the last few weeks. I mean, y'all, we're like two weeks away. Maybe two weeks and some change away from 2021. Can y'all even believe that?

Like, when I think about it, I think about how far, how much has happened this year? Like, I feel like it was just January.

Do y'all feel like this has been the fastest year of your life? Like, I feel like this is the fastest year of my life.

Like, I cannot even believe that it is already, it is already the end of the year and we're walking in 2021. I don't know about you, but I want you to sit back for a second with me for the next 20 minutes.

And let's, let's think about the things that you did not start this year. You know, I just kind of want to get real with you today. And just gosh, just I think sometimes we get so busy with the hustle and bustle of life that we get, we turn 48 years old or 30 years old.

And we're like, oh, my God, like I've missed out on so much, right? I've missed out on so much because I thought I'd already be so far ahead, but a lot of times what the enemy does is he can't take you out. So he wears you out.

And so what this year has done for me is it showed me y'all that I was lazy. I was lazy. Now I am one of the hardest workers ever. I work, I've worked since I was 15 years old.

My first job was at Golden Crow. I mean, I have just always been a hustler, but procrastination is really bad for me. And I'm almost like a die hard loyalist.

You know what I'm saying? Like this year, I've spent so much time reflecting just like I've made some, like, like y'all, for the first time this year, I figured out things that were non-negotiables for me.

I'm 48 years old. It took me all this time to realize that I don't like baby utensils. Is that the funniest thing ever that I think my whole life, I just kind of felt like, man, like in my marriage, I was always, it's almost like I felt like I had to buy people's love.

And so I always make sure everybody else had the best of everything and I would just get the hand-be-downs. Anybody else out there, this is making sense with them. It's almost like I felt like I wasn't worthy.

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