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ManTalks Podcast

Stirling Cooper - Porn, Attraction, Dominance, And What Women Want

ManTalks Podcast

Connor Beaton

Relationships, Mental Health, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.8591 Ratings

🗓️ 29 May 2023

⏱️ 93 minutes

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Summary

Talking points: porn, sex, psychology, sexual technique, sexual health Note: there were some technical troubles on this one, so forgive the rougher audio! I polled my followers on Instagram for a lot of the questions Stirling and I covered this episode, so expect a great combo of thoughtful "why" answers and actionable advice on everything sex, arousal, attraction, and more. [00:01:08] - Stirling's defining moment[00:05:23] - How it shifted Stirling's perspective[00:12:57] - How DID you end up in porn, and what is it really like?[00:21:22] - Why OnlyFans took off[00:28:39] - What porn can do to a guy's sexual psychology[00:38:03] - How would you talk to your son about porn?[00:46:44] - How do you map out male dominance in the bedroom in today's society?[00:55:41] - How do you get your partner in the mood?[01:01:56] - How do we bridge the gap between women who want a more dominant man in the bedroom and men who are worried about being so?[01:18:14] - How to get better erections and last longer Stirling Cooper is an Award Winning Australian Pornographic Actor. Born in rural Western Australia, Stirling started off his Porn career in 2017 shooting for smaller studios based in Melbourne. He then moved to the United Kingdom and used his experience and connections to get his foot in the door in the British Porn industry, shooting for numerous studios throughout 2017 such as the notorious Fake Taxi, Dorcel, and many more. His career started to really kick into gear in the beginning of 2018 when he shot his first scene for Brazzers in 2018 and after that was flown out to Budapest, Hungary to shoot for other MindGeek brands like Babes. He stayed in Europe for several months working between Budapest, Hungary, and Prague, Czech Republic building a lot of momentum and gaining tremendous experience after being cast by big names like Rocco Siffredi and the FakeHub Network. Stirling now uses his wealth of experience as a professional sex machine to teach men how to improve their own sex lives and through his Youtube channel he also helps enlighten men on the virtues of living an unapologetically masculine life. Connect with Stirling -Website: https://www.stirlingcooper.com/ -Twitter: https://twitter.com/stirlingwisdom -YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0YIbCZJoYV1BeZ5qHDIJyQ -Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cooperstirling/ Pick up my brand-new book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/ Check out some free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance and join me today.  Enjoy the podcast? If so, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts  | Spotify For more episodes, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

It's not just about getting their rocks off for guys.

0:02.0

Guys genuinely need companionship and nurturing that nurturing female energy.

0:07.1

And so what do they turn to?

0:08.4

They turn to things like OnlyFans to get that.

0:10.3

And the women who make the most money on that platform are the ones who are able to nurture

0:15.2

a relationship with a guy online.

0:17.0

That way they'll learn where he works like what his dog's name is when his

0:21.7

birthday is what his favorite hobbies are what his favorite music is what he likes to eat like

0:25.3

they'll remember and they'll keep a list of all of these things all right sterling welcome to

0:31.2

the man talk show how you doing today brother amazing mate good you know i've been looking forward

0:36.4

to this conversation i think i was telling you before we started I've been looking forward to this conversation. I think I was telling you

0:38.0

before we started, I've been looking forward to having this conversation because I feel like you're a very

0:42.9

unique voice within like the quote unquote men's space or the manosphere or like whatever label

0:49.9

we want to put on that. And I really value some of the perspectives that you bring to the table.

0:54.3

So I've been looking forward to this conversation for sure.

0:57.3

And now that the fanboy is over, let's get into the defining moment.

1:02.6

So tell us a story about a defining moment in your life that made you who you are today.

1:08.0

Okay.

1:08.2

So you briefed me before we started the record button, and I told you,

1:13.2

I'm going to tell you a story that I've never told anyone ever online ever before. So this is,

1:18.6

it'll be an exclusive thirst for you and your audience. And probably the most defining moment of my

1:25.5

life. It's actually both simultaneously the saddest moment of my life

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