Hey friends Jamie Grace here and welcome to Wait It Out, a podcast about dating, relationships, and other things worth waiting for.

You know, I think that you guys really enjoy sending questions via Instagram DM and I really

D.M. so I am grateful that you guys are sending them and keep them coming. This one is from M. She says, she's a senior in college and the only experience that she's ever had with a guy was extremely toxic.

She said he forced me into a lot of things

that I wasn't completely down to do, but I did because I wanted his approval. My question

is this, what advice do you offer someone with a sexual, she put air quotes around sexual past. I'm still a virgin but not as

pure as I like to be but I've had no relationship past and how do I open up to

my future spouse about my past, how much honesty is necessary.

And that there's a couple questions in one and I'm so sorry for everything that you've been

through. I do want to make sure that I

establish that I don't want this to be misconstrued and I don't want I want it to

seem as though I know the full story because I don't all I know is everything that you guys have just heard

But if someone has forced you to do something if someone is forcing you to do something that is against your will that you don't want to do

I know it might seem intimidating to just think like to do something that is against your will that you don't want to do.

I know it might seem intimidating to just think like, oh, okay, like I'm going to just go

ahead and call the police, you know, like that's kind of a lot to do like to just try to call it because that can be really difficult.

That can be really terrifying. I do want to encourage you guys there's a couple of

different organizations and things that could provide help. There's 1-800 6-56 hope.

That's the National Sexual Assault Telephone Hotline.

And I know that some of you guys might kind of be like,

okay, Jamie, like why are you sharing that?

But I share that because even if

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