Why always we're talking about joy and love and things is

to keep the mind pleasant, to keep the

emotion pleasant. Because when your mind and emotions are pleasant, you are flexible.

We can do many things with you. When your mind and your emotions are in unpleasant, you

become rigid.

Nothing can be done about you.

So first settle that.

Whatever the nonsense you are.

First thing is learn to be joyful and loving.

Now, it's easy to work with you. It's easy to help you. It's easy to reach out to you.

It's easy to do things with you beyond your likes. Because your likes and dislikes are the basic compulsions.

The more unhappy people are, the more they will insist, I'll do only this, this is how I am.

Joyful people are flexible. You can make them dance, you can make them cry, you can make them jump,

you can make them do funny things, you can ask them to crawl around, they'll do everything when they're happy.

They're flexible.

Don't lose your flexibility.

That's the most important thing.