My mother taught me to appreciate a job well done. She'd say, quote, if you're going to kill each other, do it outside. I just finished cleaning. She also taught me about time travel. If you don't straighten up, I'm going to knock you in the middle of next week. My mother also taught me about logic because I said so. That's why. Today we're talking about stay-at-home moms and working moms. So all you moms, moms to be, and men who love your women, listen up, because that's next. I'm Jason. And I'm Bresette. And you're listening to the modest

shopping movement. What's up guys? Welcome to the show. We've been out for just a couple of days, but we've been,

and we've had you on our minds because we've had a couple of you write in. We've received quite a few

messages even on Instagram. And this is a hot topic that always shows up. Mom, we're talking about

stay at home moms versus working moms. And what's going on in the world out there?

This is super hop, hop, hop.

It's a hyper hot topic.

Super hot topic.

Let's talk about what do you normally see about stay-at-home moms and working moms

and what is your interaction with those that come to you and talk to you about this?

Well, I feel like I get the question a lot because I am a working mom and I feel like

they see my life on Instagram or social media and they're like, how do you do it all?

Because they struggle to do one or the other or not feel guilty.

And the truth is there really is no secret. I think we all

feel mom guilt and I don't know that I do it well. I just know what works for me. In fact, I did a

post this morning because for so long I was trying to figure out the balance, right? How do I balance

being a working mom versus being a stay-at-home mom and being there for my kids?

And finally, and I don't know if it took me getting in my mid-30s and older to realize there is no such

thing as balance.

I just had to figure out what works for me.

What's important to me?

Where do I need to spend time that I don't feel

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