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Afford Anything | Make Smart Money Choices

Starting Over at 40 with Six Kids, with Wendy Mays

Afford Anything | Make Smart Money Choices

Paula Pant | Cumulus Podcast Network

Entrepreneurship, Investing, Business

4.73.6K Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2019

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

#196: When Wendy Mays was in her early 20’s, she earned $12 an hour working as the office manager of a pest control company. She wanted higher income, so she enrolled in college at age 22. By the time she finished her undergraduate degree, she was 26, married, with a child. Her husband worked low-paying jobs to make ends meet. They struggled to pay the bills. Wendy decided to enroll in law school, so that she could bring in more money. She graduated around age 30, and became the primary breadwinner for the household. She opened her own law practice. The couple starting bringing in a combined household income of around $200,000 annually. They bought a large house, with a swimming pool. Sounds like the American Dream, right? Except it was all financed. By age 38, Wendy and her husband accrued nearly $800,000 in debt. Around $480,000 came in the form of mortgage debt. Another $20,000 comprised of vehicle loans. The other $300,000 came in the form of student loans. They lived paycheck-to-paycheck. They decided to expand their family through adoption. Rather quickly, Wendy and her husband had six children. They realized they needed to repay their debt in order to give their family a more stable home life. At age 38, Wendy and her husband committed to repaying their debt, building their retirement accounts, and getting themselves onto a smart financial track. How did they re-start their financial life at age 38, with six children and $800,000 in debt? Find out in today’s episode. For more information, visit the show notes at https://affordanything.com/episode196  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0

You can afford anything but not everything.

0:10.6

Every decision that you make is a trade-off against something else and that doesn't just

0:13.2

apply to your money.

0:14.2

It applies to your time, your focus, your energy, your attention.

0:17.0

It applies to anything in your life that is a scarce or limited resource, a yes to

0:20.6

one thing, is an implicit no to something else.

0:23.6

And so the questions become twofold.

0:25.4

Number one, what's most important to you?

0:27.8

What are your highest priorities?

0:29.2

And number two, how do you align your daily decisions in accordance?

0:34.9

Answering these two questions is a lifetime practice.

0:37.7

It's something that we have to work on every single day.

0:40.0

And this podcast is here to explore and facilitate that.

0:43.0

My name is Paula Pan.

0:44.0

I am the host of the Afford Anything Podcast.

0:45.8

And today, we are talking to Wendy Mays about starting over at the age of 40 with six

0:53.8

kids.

0:55.3

And Wendy was almost 40 years old when she was 38 years old.

0:59.4

She looked around and realized that she was in trouble.

1:04.8

She and her husband were in a serious amount of debt.

1:09.1

And they had nothing saved for retirement.

1:12.1

So she realized she needed a complete financial transformation.

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