Stand Up for Your Standards (Stop Settling!) to Achieve the Life You Want
The Chris Harder Show
Chris Harder
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 9 April 2025
⏱️ 28 minutes
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Summary
Are you quietly tolerating things that are draining your energy? In this episode, Lori and I dive into what it really means to unapologetically raise your standards — in your home, relationships, and your business. We talk about why resentment builds when you stay quiet, how setting clear expectations actually strengthens your team, and why you owe it to yourself and the people around you to say what you want. We also share the story behind Lori’s $1,000 competition bikini, how it helped her land magazine covers, and how even the smallest standards reflect what you’re willing to receive in life.
HIGHLIGHTS
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What happens when you settle for “good enough”.
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Why Lori bought a $1,000 bikini.
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What my old party crew said when I tried to grow.
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How to choose the environment that matches your dream.
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Chris’ story of standing up for excellence at work.
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How small standards affect your whole life.
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The secret to attracting (and keeping) A-players.
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ONE standard you need to finally stand up for.
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Transcript
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| 0:00.5 | People started to say things like, oh, are you too good for us? |
| 0:03.1 | Or at least crack those jokes. |
| 0:04.5 | You're not saying you're too good for people when you stand up for your standards. |
| 0:08.3 | You're saying, I'm better than this situation. |
| 0:11.3 | And there's a very big difference because they can elevate their situation. |
| 0:14.6 | They can choose to come along for the journey. |
| 0:17.3 | They can choose to get healthier or wealthier or happier or anything. |
| 0:21.0 | There's nothing wrong with you, the journey. They can choose to get healthier or wealthier or happier or anything. There's nothing wrong with you, the person. There's something wrong with the situation that I'm |
| 0:24.2 | in right now, and I'm going to fight to improve that. |
| 0:32.6 | Welcome everybody to the Chris Harder Show, where we are making you unapologetic about your |
| 0:37.2 | pursuit of success, |
| 0:38.3 | knowing that when good people like you make good money, they can then do great things. |
| 0:42.8 | My name is Chris Harder and several times per week. |
| 0:45.1 | I will bring you epic guests, solo episodes, and every single tool, trick, and skill set you need to grow your business, grow your money mindset, |
| 0:52.6 | and to grow your wealth to levels that you have |
| 0:54.3 | never reached before. I've ended up in a unique place in life where I've got the experience, |
| 0:58.8 | the connections, and all of the secrets that it takes to be successful. And I'm lifting the |
| 1:03.8 | curtain to reveal it all to you in an effort to help put you in a position of abundance |
| 1:07.9 | so great that you can then be as generous as possible. |
| 1:12.2 | So let's lock arms and let's get started. |
| 1:17.9 | And we're back with another episode of He Said She Said. |
| 1:20.9 | Real quick, if you are not on the wait list yet for our brand new program for businesses |
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