Okay, wait, before you see something, you can't, you can't say you were scared because, like, that can come off as, like, a microaggression.

Wait, no, no, I just meant more like, what did you think I was going to do to you? I don't know. I just was like... Are your boyfriend there? You think I'm going to bust down the door?

Hello, you guys. Welcome back to another episode here at Everyone's Business But Mine with me,

Kara Berry. We're talking not quite my friends and family like Summer House, but these are like my younger siblings friends if I had one. And I'm like having a good time watching them navigate

the world. you know?

Let's talk about Southern hospitality.

Another great episode, another absolute banger. We're having two conversations on Bravo about race, about the perception of people and race, and how black men specifically in KJ and in Brad on Southern

Hospitality have to be super careful about not appearing aggressive, angry, unsafe, to quote

Emmy in not only the world, but like specifically their microcosm of Charleston. So let's get into it, y'all. We left off with Mia advocating for her cutout, being assaulted by Maddie at a Sir Weiner's anniversary event.

One of the best things about Southern hospitality are the sentences that I get to say.

You're like two grown women fighting over the fact that one kicked over the cutout version of another woman at a hot dog event.

And now we're having to address it and real, like, after the fact.

But they're fine.

We're good now.

So Mia goes to talk to Justin and TJ, about like, hey, me and Maddie just squashed the beef.

Maddie felt like something happened that didn't, that I did something and I actually didn't.

I could have swung on Maddie for knocking my poster down.

And T.J.'s like, yeah, you got a swing. I would know. And I felt it.

And Justin is like, wait, you've hit T.J. before. She's like, yeah.

They're laughing about it. Justin loves this. He, you've hit T. Che before? She's like, yeah. They're laughing about it.

Justin loves this. He's like really into Mia. He says in a confessional, I've had a bit of a crush on Mia since I met her a few months ago. Okay, well, get in line. Obviously, you have vision. Of course you have a crush on Mia. But then he says she's got a great personality.

But as he says personality, he holds up his hands in a jugs like manner.

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