meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 7 January 2020

⏱️ 26 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

We are just ONE WEEK away from the release of my new book, Love In Every Season. So today’s question couldn’t have come at a better time. We’re digging deep into the four seasons of a relationship starting with the season of Spring! Spring is the season of growth, it’s the season when attraction is blossoming and emotions are blooming. It’s the season of planting the right seeds and taking out the weeds. While there’s so much I could cover in the season of Spring (becoming friends before lovers, the four laws of attraction, redefining our “type”, planting the right seeds, etc — and I cover it ALL in Love In Every Season), today’s podcast episode is going to focus on one specific dynamic of Spring: growth. Is your relationship growing? What does it mean to be in a give-and-take relationship, and why does it matter? Relationships have to grow in order to survive. If you’re not seeing characteristics of growth in your relationship – something is wrong. Click the buttons below to subscribe and check out Episode 53 of the Love + Relationships Podcast! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO Love + Relationships Podcast Notes: ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season! Get a FREE DIGITAL COPY TODAY by JOINING THE Love In Every Season Launch Team! For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast & TLD articles check out: How To Find a Good Match: Compatibility In a Relationship Healthy Dating Looks Like This: A Conversation With Ben Stuart Boundaries with the Opposite Sex: A Conversation with My Husband My Husband Does Not Have The Final Say In Our Marriage (article) BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. (Debra’s New Book: Love In Every Season Coming January 2020, Pre-Order Today!) And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,

0:23.8

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating, singleness, and marriage.

0:30.4

For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time, I'm a licensed professional

0:35.1

counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.

0:38.4

I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the message

0:44.9

that healthy people make healthy relationships.

0:48.5

If you've tuned into the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people

0:53.6

call in or write in with their

0:55.1

relationship questions and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized

1:00.1

answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email or

1:05.6

voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page, true lovedates.com slash love and relationships,

1:13.8

and I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get started.

1:23.6

Hey, Deborah. It's Mike from Virginia. And my question for you is about the four seasons of a relationship.

1:29.0

I'm excited about your new book and learning more about each season, but my question is, how can a person know what season their relationship is in?

1:37.1

Thanks so much.

1:42.7

I love this question about the four seasons of a relationship, and it makes me so excited to hear that you're excited about this new message of love in every season.

1:52.9

Love in every season comes out in officially one week. One week from today, guys, it will be in your hands. And I can't wait to hear what you think about it

2:01.7

and help you dive a little deeper into the four different seasons of a relationship. So with this

2:09.7

question in mind, I think it's really important that we take some time to kind of give you a brief

2:15.5

intro and just to kind of start digging into this subject a little bit more,

2:21.5

understanding the four seasons a little bit better, understanding the components of each season

2:27.7

so that you know what season you might be in and what each season looks like, what each season

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.