We're bringing Australian True Crime live to Brisbane, Sydney and Melbourne this July,

and I have to tell you that Brisbane sold out already.

Good for you, Brisbane, so we've quickly added a second show.

Now we can't keep adding more shows, so please make sure you get your tickets. Our special guests,

our forensic criminologist Santee Mallet in Brisbane and Sydney and the one and only Charlie Bazzina in

Melbourne. There'll be a Q&A of course so you can ask your own burning questions on the night but you have to book quickly.

I was fairly ignorant to most things as you'd imagine a nine year old would be at that age.

I was scared, I was upset, I had so many emotions running through my body.

I don't know why I didn't yell,

why I didn't ask her to stop.

I made a joke.

Oh, the seatbelt's keeping me safe. I just didn't realize how safe it was

keeping me at the time.

My boyfriend got frustrated and snapped. When are you going to get over it?

I looked at myself like I was just a sex toy for men

because that's how I was brought up.

When I told people hoping for a kind, compassionate response, I got laughter and boys will be boys.

You do become extremely fearful and even worthless and small almost like this is in a way what you deserve.

This is the Still Not Asking for it podcast and I'm Rory Banlow.

In early 2014 I found out that I was pregnant.

A few months after that my partner and I found out we were having a daughter.

I know this isn't something you're supposed to say, but we were both elated to find out we were having a girl.

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