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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Spiritual Warfare & Relationships: Is it a relationship problem or a spiritual attack?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 7 May 2019

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Spiritual warfare isn’t something we discuss too often in the context of our day- to-day lives, much less in the context of our relationships. But by not having this conversation, what if we’re missing something? Because what if there are forces unseen at work, waging war against our hearts and against our relationships? Spiritual Warfare in Relationships According to scripture, “our battle is not simply against flesh and blood…but against the powers of this dark world…and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realm” (Ephesians 6:12). According to God’s word – the struggles we face in our lives and in our relationships are often more “unseen” than we realize. Today on the podcast, our question comes from a young man who is wondering exactly if and how spiritual warfare is something that impacts our ability to have healthy relationships. Spiritual Warfare vs. Relationship Problems How do you know if the problem is in the relationship, or if it’s a spiritual attack? What are some things you can do to defend yourself from spiritual warfare? What’s the proper balance of looking at something spiritually, but not seeing everything as a spiritual attack? What’s the role of the armor of God against spiritual warfare? To tag-team this important topic, I invited my friend Dr. Tim Muehlhoff, Director of Resources Biola University’s Center for Marriage and Relationships, and author of Defending Your Marriage: The Reality of Spiritual Battle. His latest book is an eye-opening look into the implications of spiritual warfare and how it plays out in marriage and relationships. This episode was such a challenging and convicting look into the health of our spiritual life and our spiritual lens. I hope it encourages you as much as it encouraged me. So click the buttons below to subscribe and check out Episode 37 of the Love + Relationships Podcast to learn about spiritual warfare and relationships! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast?  Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER or SPOTIFY Love + Relationships Podcast Extras: We talked about the importance of praying as a weapon against spiritual attack. Take some time to PRAY OVER YOUR FUTURE LOVE LIFE by enrolling in the 21 Days to Pray For Your Love Life Program. Learn more about Biola University’s Center for Marriage and Relationships! For another great episode of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out: 5 Differences That Cause Stress in Marriage BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.   DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,

0:24.0

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating,

0:29.2

singleness, and marriage. For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time,

0:33.7

I'm a licensed professional counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.

0:39.3

I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the

0:44.8

message that healthy people make healthy relationships. If you've tuned into the podcast before,

0:51.1

you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people call in or write in with

0:55.2

their relationship questions and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized

1:00.3

answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email or

1:05.8

voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page, truelovedates.com slash love and

1:13.2

relationships. And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get

1:17.9

started. Today's question comes from Andrew from North Carolina.

1:36.3

Andrew asks, what role, if any, does spiritual warfare have with regard to our pursuit of healthy relationships?

1:41.7

To help me tag team this question today, I'm bringing on my friend Dr. Tim Mulehof.

1:45.8

I met Dr. Tim while I was out at a speaking engagement at Biola University.

1:51.4

He's a professor of communication there, and he teaches classes in conflict resolution,

1:58.0

apologetics, gender, and family communication. Tim currently is the director of resources for Biala Center for Marriage and Relationships. They're doing amazing

2:02.1

things for relationships for students and for the community at large. His latest book,

2:08.4

Defending Your Marriage, The Reality of Spiritual Battle is one that I'm currently reading,

2:13.5

and it's kind of opened my eyes to the reality of spiritual battle,

2:18.4

but specifically how we can see spiritual battle at work in our closest relationships.

2:29.6

Tim, thank you so much for joining me on the Love and Relationships podcast today.

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