You know, some of the things that I've found helpful with couples is, you know, sometimes

taking the conversation away from the actual sexual interaction. So when you're in bed together naked

is such a vulnerable time. You don't always want to bring up. There are some things that like,

if you're really going to go for doing kind of more of say like a guided experience where you

really help someone learn how to touch you in the ways that you want to be touched or, you know,

things like that that are more experiential, you may need to have it be in that setting,

but oftentimes the initial bringing up of, you know, what you'd like to be different is more successful

when it's not right in the moment, you know, because that can feel very shaming and again,

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Her name is Dr. Susan Ansorge, and she is a psychologist here in Austin, Texas.

She describes herself as a sex literate therapist. And by that, let me tell you how season

I work together. I often, as y'all know, do a lot of couples work and run into individuals

who really struggle with a topic of sexuality, whether it's then becoming comfortable just with

the idea of processing sex or in their partnership. And I often refer to Susan because she's just

exceptional. I kind of consider her the sex talk whisperer. Welcome, Susan. How do you like that

description? I love it. But it's true, right? We've worked together for years. And in that process,

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