Sometimes You Need To Sleep In Separate Beds ft. Rebecca Minkoff

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 11 July 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I am virtually joined by fashion designer and author Rebecca Minkoff. We discuss manifesting her now husband, prioritizing kids when they're young, not talking to friends about your relationship, how she got started with her clothing line, how she feels about fashion influencer culture, how to overcome desperation when dating, how she feels about imposter syndrome, the perfect first date outfit, why the word "balance" is bullshit, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss if therapy can make you overthink or insecure, how to get into liking porn, if you can work on your mental health while in a relationship, my new merch!, keeping your sex life hot if you live together, dysfunctional sibling relationships, how I spent July 4th, and questions to ask to get into a relationship.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a dear media production.
0:06.3	Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It Acme. I am so excited for the episode today. It is
0:12.4	the one and only Rebecca Minkoff. She is so awesome. She just released a book called Fearless
0:18.6	and you'll be able to tell in this episode how fearless she is. She shares so much wisdom with us
0:25.4	before we get into Rebecca. Oh, also not to mention she's literally in her car as we recorded
0:31.6	this episode waiting for her son to be done with his soccer practice. So like talk about multitasking.
0:37.8	I love that and women are superheroes. I'm just going to answer some of your questions from the
0:43.6	solo and then we'll get right into it. So the first question was, can therapy make you overthink
0:49.8	slash feel insecure about things that didn't bother you before? That's a really interesting
0:54.5	question. I actually find sometimes that when I go into therapy not having an agenda or not
1:02.0	having anything, I will overthink and I'll come up with problems just to have something to talk
1:08.0	about, which is so dumb. I'm sure other people have done this before and it's like, maybe it's just
1:14.9	me as a people pleaser, but that's why I find that it's so important and necessary for you to make a
1:21.6	list of the things that you want to talk about as they come up in your life, like even if
1:27.4	you and your partner let's say had a fight and then by the time you get to therapy,
1:30.9	the fights over or you and your mom had a fight or sister or whatever and things have been resolved.
1:36.2	It's so important to write down how you felt in that moment and maybe what you did to cope and
1:41.4	what you wish you could have done and what you could do better. And so then you could talk through
1:46.1	that with your therapist. You're not always going to have the worst day ever right before a therapy
1:51.2	session. That's not how it works. So you just have to prepare for it in the interim. Can it make
1:56.0	you feel insecure about things that didn't bother you before? Maybe, but I think that's a good thing.
2:00.8	To me, that uncomfortability is you becoming more self-aware and growing and I don't know if it
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