Hello my incredible podcast family. This is Real Talk Him. How are you doing? Man, I am so excited to be back with you all today.

Man, I have been traveling again. The world's been opening back up. I have to admit I've gotten very spoiled being home.

And so I'm having to get back to the hotel getting back adjusted, you know, to the hotel life and man sleeping in not my bed.

So I am last week was traveling and forgot all about my podcast. How does that even happen? It's like the world just is going by so fast and so the structure I had is no more.

So I'm back. Welcome, welcome, welcome to all of you today.

Man, I'm praying for you today. I believe the best is yet to come for you today. God's got incredible plans for you and excitement for you.

And we've got what 60, 68 days or something like that left to 2020. And I believe that God's going to do more in these 67, 68 days than he's done in the last decade of your life.

And that is just how God rolls. And man, this year is just proof, proof, proof, proof that it can what look like it looks like to me the worst year of your life can turn out to be the best.

And that's exactly what's happened in my life. And I know it's happening in yours as well. So I'm real talk him. Y'all can stay connected to me by going to realtalkkim.com right now.

I'm an author, four time author. I am a pastor at limitless church. I'm a senior pastor at limitless church in Fayetteville, Georgia right across from whitewater high school.

If you're ever in Atlanta man, you've got to come see me. I'm there every Sunday at 11 o'clock. And I'm the mother of two incredible kids, Morgan, Scotland and Lincoln, Presley, 26 and 24 and business entrepreneur, mother pastor, hope dealer, purpose pusher.

And just stay connected y'all go get my you not not only do I podcast but I have a YouTube channel real talk him. I'm on every social media platform is real talk him. So let's get into it today. I want to talk to you about life.

Just we're talking about life and the way that you know so often people ask me all the time. Can you please tell me what your mother uses on her skin and all y'all know Mimi. Mimi is my mother.

And she's in lots of my videos with me and she's 73 but Mimi doesn't look 73 Mimi looks my age Mimi looks phenomenal and people always want to know what makeup does she use and Mimi said something to me when I ask her because someone wanted to know what makeup she says she goes it is way more than what I put on my skin is what I put in my body.

And that's the truth because she barely wears makeup and she doesn't have to because of the way she takes care of her insides. And so today I want to give you some illustrations.

That's going to help you get free the first the first thing I want to tell you about living right and and and living your best life is understand some things.

These are things that I understand that help me move forward. Number one is important people come and go and that's okay.

Important people come and go and that's okay. See we're talking today about what are you holding on to. What are you just brewing in your spirit that is weighing you down.

Every day what are you thinking about daily. What's holding you back the should have could have is would have see unfortunately the most important people in your life can become strangers overnight.

Craziest thing ever in it how someone that you went on vacation with you are married to you slip with all of a sudden overnight gone divorced right fortunately total strangers can become the most important people in your life overnight.

And this process hurts but if accepted it serves to improve the quality and suitability of the people in your life.

I think that was probably one of the hardest things for me this year was understanding because y'all realize that we've social distanced all year.

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