Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now.com, and you're listening to the

Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for Women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

emotional and spiritual abuse.

Welcome to episode 28 of the Fine Free Podcast.

Today I have guest Jenny B, who's the founder and owner of Bismavans.com.

Jenny is also an emotional abuse survivor and

divorcee and personal friend of mine and we are going to be talking today

about the perks of being divorced. Now I realize that might sound kind of strange because divorce

is not generally thought of as a positive thing, but when you're married to

an abusive individual divorce can be a mercy of God. Many emotional abuse

victims are fearful about divorce and what's on the other side and it's true

that walking through divorce is not a walk in the park. It's terrifying.

But I always say that when you're married to an abuser, you have two choices. Hell and hell. But one hell leads to more hell and

the other hell leads to freedom. And it's that freedom and all the perks that come

with it that we're going to be talking about today.

So welcome Jenny.

Thanks so much Natalie.

It's so fun to be with you.

We were talking right before we got started here about a book that we both read that kind of

planted some ideas in our minds about what divorce would be like if we ever dared to think

about that as a possibility from our marriages.

You want to talk a little bit about that?

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