Some narcissists want you to feel sorry for them
The Mental Healness Podcast
Lee Hammock
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🗓️ 20 March 2024
⏱️ 13 minutes
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Summary
Some narcissists absolutely want you to feel sorry for them and will use their bad experiences to try and connect with you. Not all narcissists want your pity, matter of fact some absolutely hate it. They dont' want you to feel sorry for them no matter what. But for those that do, they love pity and will absolutely take advantage of your empathy and compassion for them.
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| 0:00.0 | What is going on beautiful people? Today we're going to be talking about how some narcissists, some, want you to feel sorry for them, how they would use their own traumas in your trauma to help connect to you. |
| 0:13.4 | If you're new here, my name is Lee Hamming, |
| 0:14.7 | I'm a clinically diagnosed narcissist. |
| 0:16.6 | And welcome to another episode of D narcissist code. Oh, Welcome back. Welcome back. Welcome back folks. Yes, yes. Welcome back. Um, yeah. P. Yeah, P. P. P. Iy, pity, p I t why. Now, let me go and say this first. There are some narcissists out there who don't want your pity. They don't want you to feel sorry for them. They load it. |
| 0:55.2 | They load when other people feel sorry for them. Because if you can feel sorry for me that means you're above me. |
| 1:01.1 | The only way you can feel sorry for me is you're above me in some way |
| 1:03.7 | shape or form so I don't want you to feel like you're above me so I don't want your |
| 1:07.0 | pity. Even if I need help, even if I need if I'm a my I don't look I have |
| 1:11.9 | zero dollars left I have negative dollars I'm in debt |
| 1:14.9 | you know I have a negative net worth right now and no money coming in I still want |
| 1:20.1 | for help because I don't want your pity. But there are some covert |
| 1:24.2 | vulnerable narcissists out there that will absolutely ask you for help or be a |
| 1:29.6 | big they want your pity they want it because they can use that as a way to bond to you or as a way to get back into your life. |
| 1:38.6 | And I'll say this as well. |
| 1:40.0 | It's not only covert narcissists. |
| 1:41.5 | I have a uh... |
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