Soft Men Who Are Too Afraid Of Upsetting Their Women

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.6 • 532 Ratings

🗓️ 25 January 2023

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Why men who are too soft and afraid of upsetting their women give up too much power, causing women to lose attraction and respect.

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter.
0:04.3	And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be soft men who are too afraid of upsetting their women.
0:11.5	Well, I've got an email.
0:12.6	This particular guy is new to my work.
0:14.4	He's only been following me for about two months.
0:17.9	And he's been with his girlfriend of three years.
0:20.0	And when people come to me it's not
0:21.8	because things are going great in his life or his relationship obviously something is not going
0:27.1	well and so part of what he's talking about he thinks he's got a unique case here part of his
0:33.1	problem is his he's become a pleaser in these last three years and he's trained his girlfriend to believe that
0:42.5	he's always available and if he doesn't drop what he's doing whether he's at work or he's away from her
0:48.5	and text her messages reassuring she gets mad but hurt and upset and part of this is he's oftentimes and i see
0:58.4	this a lot even married friends of mine and especially when they've been together decades it's like
1:02.8	their whole world revolves around i don't want to piss my wife off i don't want to upset my girlfriend
1:09.0	and that's kind of what this guy's mindset is. And so he wants to be focused on his mission and purpose. You can tell he doesn't really want to be doing these things, but when he backs off and he starts applying what's in my book, he's getting a lot of pushback because he's trained her to be this way. And so, and it's not just with this, it's with other things. He's like, you know, a lot of guys are, hey, I'm walking on eggshells. I don't want to upset my girlfriend. I don't upset my wife. I don't want her getting mad of me. The whole weekend's going to be ruined. And part of it is, is that you have to be more masculine than your girl. And she's got to respect your time and if you're in meetings and
1:44.5	you're busy during the day it's like if you've taught her properly of what your schedule's like
1:51.7	is just me as a man it's like this would drive me absolutely bonkers being in a relationship with a
1:57.1	girl that behaves this way and it's like if he doesn't text her good morning every morning, she gets upset and takes it
2:05.0	as he doesn't care for her.
2:07.3	But after three years of being together, what really tells me, or what's kind of telling,
2:13.3	is if you've been together that long, you should probably be living together.
2:17.4	And even if you're not living together, you should probably be living together.
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