All right. I'm ready. Hi, guys. Welcome to this episode of Keviet Positive, sweetie. And today,

guess what we're talking about? This offline. Yes, I am. I'm trying to hone in on my

soft life. And recently, this term was coined. And I feel it derived from black

women who are tired. We're tired. We are tired of doing everything by ourselves,

especially black women. We are, we do everything. We hold everybody up. We single

black women. I have to do everything by myself. I have to do the thing that has to

be the man and the woman. And it's exhausting. I don't know if you guys feel the way I

feel, but I'm ready for the soft life. And I feel like the soft life starts with us.

You know, we have to start hiring people to do some of these things to help us really

tap into that soft life because you will run yourself ragged trying to do your job

and a job that a man should be doing. Okay. So let's get into it. I found this quote

by Zoe Zondana and it really resonated with me. She said, I like what I do. I like how

I do it. I like my mistakes. I like the pace at which I learn from my mistakes. I don't

want to be anybody else but me. And by knowing this, I want to continue figuring out who the

fuck I am. Zoe Zondana. Okay. First of all, it's me too. I'm trying to figure that out.

But while I do that, I want to keep it cute and keep it soft. Listen, I feel like we

can take it back to slavery where the black woman had to keep the family lifted, had to

hold everything down. The man would leave. The man would get killed. It was so many different

things. I think generationally, it has just been ingrained in us. This is what you're

supposed to do. You're supposed to hold it down while he's out working. You need to

make sure the kids are good. You need to make sure the house is right. You need to also

have a job. You need to birth the children. You need to make sure that they're raised

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