Sofie Hagen is Stuck in a 10-Year Dry Spell | WHGS Ep. 315

We're Having Gay Sex

Ashley Gavin & Studio71

Comedy, Comedy Interviews, Society & Culture

4.7 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 16 March 2026

⏱️ 72 minutes

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This episode is DRY, listener! Sofie Hagen (Netflix, Fringe) is an award-winning Danish stand-up comedian, author, and podcaster that tours all around the world, but today they’re in the apartment for some SEX tourism because things have been dry! We discuss not having sex in 10+ years despite liking it, why that can be affected by the intersections of trauma, gender, and body image, and how you can absolutely positively FUMBLE the one opportunity to break said dry spell. Ashley gets called ugly. Lizzy prefers gay men. FOLLOW SOFIE HAGEN: See them live on her WORLD TOUR now! Get tickets at https://www.sofiehagen.com/ Listen to “Sofieland” NOW on all platforms: https://www.sofiehagen.com/sofieland Check out her books: https://www.sofiehagen.com/books Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sofiehagendk/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sofie.hagen FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/WbjU37TrBOo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	when I got the email about this podcast.
0:03.0	First of all, I saw what the title was of the podcast,
0:05.2	and I thought, have these people done their bloody research?
0:09.3	I wrote a whole book about how I haven't had sex in 10 years.
0:13.5	We love it.
0:14.9	Including very much so gay sex.
0:19.1	And so I was like,
0:23.5	are they here to tease me?
0:26.6	Have you fucking loser?
0:28.3	Did you have sex this week?
0:29.2	I didn't think so.
0:30.9	No, still not. Still not.
0:36.6	The bottom. The Bottoms.
0:41.9	Apologies for the quality on this.
0:44.1	I am recording from out of town.
0:46.1	But, you know, I always say it's a really great episode because it is a good podcast.
0:49.9	But this episode genuinely is really just like, it's just one of those episodes where I know you guys are going to get a lot out of it.
1:00.2	Because A, it's really funny, but our guest is so thoughtful and I think has so much in common with a lot of our listeners.
1:08.5	It's Sophie Hagan. They're a Danish comedian.
1:13.7	And they're so, so funny, but they also wrote a book about why they hadn't had sex in 10 years and evaluating their own sexuality,
1:21.1	their gender, their body image, trauma that they've gone through. And then they tell this
1:26.8	hilarious story of realizing
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