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So here's your host, live from the back of his garden in the UK David Rall.

Yes, hello there good morning everybody good morning and welcome to join up

dots. Thank you for being here and thank you for bringing your ears with you.

Today's guest is an expert on operating within the online world.

Facebook, Twitter, cell phones, smartphones, iPads, email, the worldwide web Web, the Internet of Things, you know, and use these

platforms every day. But do you know how to use them effectively? Have you ever found

yourself red in the Facebook? See what we did there, been defeated by something

tweeted, regretted a Snapchat decision, are you worried about your selfie

esteem? I'll be honest, I didn't write any of those but they're good, they're good.

Is there a secret to living our increasingly wired life

while not letting it consume you so you can live your best life online? Well today's

guest feels that she's written more than just another etiquette book, ain't you got no manners, but it's the go-to guide

with secrets and common sense for surviving and thriving in a world that increasingly blends

your online life.

As she says, you may not have a choice about what gets shared about you, how it gets shared

and how people react, but you do have a choice as to how you react.

Wise words.

So can we stop the issues from ever occurring in the first place even if we don't post them or even if we do post them I suppose and what has been her biggest faux par personally whilst navigating the online world?

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