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Simple Families

Social Media ft. Lena Derhally

Simple Families

Cloud10 and iHeartPodcasts

Kids & Family, Parenting, Education For Kids

4.81.1K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2022

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Social media gives us all an opportunity to create a false narrative of our lives. And too often, that narrative is of a life we wish we had or what we want to be. The result is a distorted sense of reality. For many of us, social media came into our lives and quickly became a slippery slope. Lena Derhally encourages us to take a step back and consider how we can be more intentional in the way social media plays a role in our lives. Lena is a licensed psychotherapist and expert in narcissism in the Washington, DC area. She's the author of the book The Facebook Narcissist. Links for this Episode Lena Derhally The Facebook Narcissist (Lena's newest book) Simple Families Podcast Episode 309: Mental Chatter Simple Families Community is now free. SPONSORS KiwiCo - Get 50% off your first month plus FREE shipping on ANY crate line with code SIMPLE at kiwico.com. PrepDish - Get 2 weeks free, prepdish.com/families

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0:00.0

Validation is normal to want every human being loves validation and that's okay

0:05.0

That's fine. We're programmed to do that and validation is good

0:09.7

But the problem is we become kind of addicted to this idea of wow

0:14.1

I'm really special because I got 200 likes or people really think my life, you know

0:18.0

That makes us feel great in the moment

0:21.5

But then it's just like this very empty thing. It's like, you know doing a shopping spree

0:26.5

In the moment you come back if these nice clothes and then you're like, oh, but that didn't make me feel better and I think it's like a

0:34.0

It's it's a distraction, you know again from

0:37.7

What really what really matters in life

0:42.0

Hi, this is Denei. I'm the founder of simple families

0:45.9

Simple families is an online community for parents who are seeking a simpler more intentional life

0:51.8

In this show we focus on minimalism with kids

0:55.1

Positive parenting family wellness and decreasing the mental load

1:00.5

My perspectives are based in my first-hand experience raising kids

1:03.8

But also rooted in my PhD in child development

1:07.7

So you're gonna hear conversations that are based in research, but more importantly real life. Thanks for joining us

1:14.3

Hi there. Thanks for tuning in Denei here, and that voice you heard in the intro is Lena DeHolly

1:24.2

Lena is an expert on narcissism and today we're talking a little bit about social media and narcissism and

1:31.3

The impact on our well-being in our conversation today Lena and I are discussing this idea of false narratives

1:38.6

Facebook and Instagram and other forms of social media give us the space and

1:43.8

Opportunity to create a false narrative of what we wish we had

1:49.7

Of what we want to be true and as a result many of the things that we see online

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