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The Slumflower Hour

SO YOU HAVE A PAST...

The Slumflower Hour

W!ZARD Studios

Self-improvement, Education

4.9549 Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2026

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel self-conscious about having a sexual history? Have men tried to make you feel shame for having been 'ran thru'? Should we start judging men for their sexual pasts in the same way they judge us? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about why your past has nothing to do with how worthy you are of love - and how you should be using your sexual past to shape the future you want with a man! Join my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get my latest book ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠POCKET POWER FROM THE SLUMFLOWER⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

Changes in sexual performance are more common than most people realize, and support doesn't need to feel awkward.

0:05.8

With MedExpress, everything happens privately online.

0:09.1

Start by completing a short consultation reviewed by UK registered clinicians.

0:13.3

If eligible, treatment is delivered discreetly to your home with ongoing support whenever you need it.

0:18.7

You're not alone in this.

0:20.2

Visit Medexpress.com.ukote.uk slash podcast to learn more.

0:24.1

Okay.

0:25.2

So you have a past.

0:28.7

Well, that is not the worst thing in the world.

0:31.8

Even though the world might make you feel that way,

0:35.8

it is what it is.

0:39.3

You're going to have to make peace with it,

0:42.7

even if men don't let you have peace.

0:45.8

I think every woman has a past,

0:47.9

and every woman's past obviously doesn't look the same.

0:51.4

I think the biggest thing people love to use to measure a woman's worth

0:57.2

according to her past is this whole body count thing. And it's a conversation that I really hate.

1:04.1

I just find it really redundant, unnecessary and reductive. When I think about men who I've had a great rapport with

1:16.2

and maybe things have gone on to be romantic

1:19.3

no matter how short-lived,

1:21.4

in no circumstance have I ever asked them what their body count is.

1:26.9

It's just not something that is important to me.

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