So you hate me?
Match Made in Manhattan
Katy Bellotte, Colbie Cassidy & Adam Harrison
4.6 • 695 Ratings
🗓️ 6 February 2026
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
Nothing strikes fear like a silence that lasts one beat too long. This week on the pod, we break down how to survive awkward pauses, what to do when you forget someone’s name mid-conversation, and how Katy’s very large tonsils caused her to choke and leave Adam stranded socially. We unpack Katy’s Bridezilla tendencies, Adam dragging his feet on booking flights (but not feelings), and debate whether Colbie wearing butter yellow to a wedding is chic or a crime.
We confirm Colbie and Adam are in a lavender marriage, admit Katy’s deep in her Zillow era, and help a listener decide if the person she’s seeing is genuinely interested or low-key lovebombing. Social anxiety, wedding drama, and relationship reality checks, all on this week’s episode of Match Made in Manhattan.
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| 0:00.0 | It wasn't me. |
| 0:01.7 | Size of my tonsils. They're like the girl with the tonsils. It's here. You've got to come in. No, they, you've got to come see them. Bring back up. That's going to be a stressful period for you guys to be my friend. I'm just letting you know. I'm excited. I'm ready for it. I'm like, get one of those freaking planes to fly with a flag saying, Adam, will you go on a second day with me? |
| 0:29.7 | What a musical intro. |
| 0:32.7 | Yeah, but the people didn't even get to hear what I was singing. |
| 0:36.3 | Kobe and I always have this thing happen to us. |
| 0:45.5 | We're like, I'll just have a tune and come into my head and I'll start singing it and then Colby will like 10 minutes later start singing it and Kobe's like, wait, were you saying this or did I just hear this in a store? Was this song playing somewhere? You always have a song in your head. I know and it's like the most random thing. Like nobody heard but I was just seeing Little Einstein's. |
| 0:53.6 | He's marching to the beat of his own drum. Little Einsteins. I mean, it's such a catchy tune. What's another one that I like? Oh, at the office, I always say, but-da-pa-pa-pa-pa-pa. I'm loving it. Wow. That's an interesting one. Why? |
| 1:11.7 | I don't know. |
| 1:12.7 | I just like but-uh-oh. |
| 1:14.1 | Actually, I don't even say that I'm loving it part. |
| 1:14.5 | I just say, |
| 1:15.5 | but-da-pa-pa-pa-pa. |
| 1:17.8 | And then somebody else will hear me and be like, |
| 1:18.9 | Adam's loving it. |
| 1:20.5 | And you want, yeah, you want someone to do. |
| 1:21.7 | So you're an intention whore. |
| 1:23.4 | You want someone to finish your sentence. |
| 1:29.2 | Why? You've got to cover the jugular like that. What's the context that you're doing a jingle? No, there's no context. Like, it's how, like, I do it with you. Like, I'll random, and how I just did it sitting here. Like, I just randomly. You just are sitting. It's a tick. Yeah, it's like, no, it's literally my tick. They go be like, but-a-ba-p-p-p-ba, and everybody's like, Adam's doing it again. There it goes. |
| 1:46.6 | Is it because you're uncomfortable? Yeah, it's like, no, it's literally my tick. Like, I'll be like, but-a-ba-ba-ba, and everybody's like, Adam's doing it again. |
| 1:45.6 | There it goes. |
| 1:46.6 | Is it because you're uncomfortable with awkward silences, so you're trying to fill the silences, is that it? I definitely don't like a silence. I like to fill the space. I mean, I don't either. I'm the same way. Yeah. I will like come up with something to say. |
| 2:01.0 | So there isn't any silence. |
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