So You Doing The Bending
We Talk Back
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.4 • 737 Ratings
🗓️ 7 May 2026
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
AJ Holiday and TamBam recap their eventful weekend adventures, from filming a reality show to attending social gatherings, while diving into candid conversations about modern relationships, dating culture, and social media dynamics. The duo discusses everything from movie experiences and hot yoga to the unexpected role of air fryers in relationships, using everyday moments to unpack larger conversations around gender norms, sexuality, and personal expectations in dating. Their relatable storytelling offers an entertaining yet thoughtful perspective on navigating romance in today’s culture.
The conversation deepens into the importance of boundaries, consent, and emotional awareness in intimate relationships. AJ and TamBam explore why people—particularly women—sometimes compromise their personal limits to please partners, while discussing the emotional consequences that can follow, including guilt, shame, and self-violation. Emphasizing communication, accountability, and mutual respect, the episode encourages listeners to better understand and protect their boundaries while fostering healthier, more intentional relationships rooted in trust and self-awareness.
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| 0:00.0 | This is an I-Heart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed Human. |
| 0:04.3 | Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of IHart Radio and the Black Effect Network. |
| 0:10.8 | Talk to them. |
| 0:13.2 | We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks back. |
| 0:22.3 | What's up, y'all,all boy It's your girl AJ Holiday |
| 0:24.0 | What's up Taylor? |
| 0:26.0 | Daniel from Charleston in it |
| 0:27.6 | And then |
| 0:28.9 | Yep |
| 0:31.9 | Y'all is Tammy |
| 0:33.3 | I miss y'all I love y'all so much |
| 0:35.5 | Oh did I say Tammy? |
| 0:38.7 | Damn I'm just getting very personal. |
| 0:41.2 | You got a character. |
| 0:42.7 | Yeah. I'm stepping out of character. It's Tammy y'all today. It's Tammy, and I miss y'all. |
| 0:50.3 | How was your weekend? |
| 0:54.0 | Let's start with yours. |
| 0:55.7 | Did you do anything fun? |
| 0:56.9 | You know how my weekend was. |
| 1:00.6 | Girl, I had like, I did so. |
| 1:04.3 | I committed to so much this weekend, and I tried to show up for everything on Friday night. |
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