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Once Upon A Crime | True Crime

So, I Married a Serial Killer - Mrs. Menendez

Once Upon A Crime | True Crime

Esther Ludlow

True Crime, Society & Culture, Crime, Truecrime, Criminology, History, Criminals

4.65K Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

In this final episode of our series, So, I Married a Serial Killer..., we unravel the complex and unconventional love stories of Lyle and Erik Menendez—two brothers sentenced to life in prison for the brutal murder of their parents.

Despite being condemned to spend the rest of their lives behind bars with no chance of parole, both Lyle and Erik found love. In fact, Lyle has been married twice while in prison, and Erik has maintained a marriage for over 25 years. But how did these romances blossom without shared homes, date nights, or even the possibility of physical touch?

In this episode, we explore the women who chose to say, “I do,” to men they would never truly have in the real world. Who are these women? What drives someone to fall in love—and even marry—a convicted murderer they can never live with?

Join us as we close out the series by diving deep into the love lives of the Menendez brothers and the women who chose to become Mrs. Menendez.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This podcast details true crime cases. It contains adult themes and may contain descriptions of violence.

0:07.1

It is not intended for children. Listener discretion is advised.

0:18.5

Thank you for joining me for today's episode of Once Upon a Crime.

0:22.6

When a person falls in love, they want to spend as much time as possible with their special someone.

0:27.6

Even short separations seem like an eternity for those who are in new relationships.

0:32.6

So would you ever consider entering into a relationship, or even a marriage marriage knowing that you and your partner could never physically be together?

0:41.3

Even partnerships that start as long distance or online relationships are ultimately intended to be consummated in person.

0:49.3

The relationships I'll share with you today started as friendships or flirtations, turned into love,

0:55.4

and then ended in marriage. Even though all parties knew, there was nearly zero chance that

1:01.0

they would ever live together or even have a physical relationship. In 1996, Lyle and

1:07.8

Eric Menendez were sentenced to two consecutive life terms in prison for shooting their parents to death.

1:13.6

They were given no chance for parole.

1:15.6

Yet both men have met, fallen in love, and married.

1:19.6

Lyle Menendez has been married twice while in prison, and Eric has been married for over 25 years.

1:25.6

Who are these women who said I do, and became brides of men who were never supposed to walk free again?

1:33.6

What compels a woman first to become romantically involved with the murderer?

1:37.7

And second, pledge her life to a partner she will never truly have in her 3D life.

1:43.1

That is the question we seek to answer in this month's series.

1:46.5

So I married a serial killer.

1:48.7

This is the last chapter of the series, Mrs. Menendez.

1:59.8

As someone who runs a small business, I'm always having to juggle the time and energy I put into the

2:04.5

creative side with the necessities of running a business. Sometimes I don't get to spend the time I'd like to create a new episode

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