Judy Starr had become infatuated with the captain of a ship.

One beautiful day in the Port of Guadalupe, we were on the deck alone together.

I just revealed to him how I felt and wanted to see if there was any reciprocal interest.

This is Revive Our Hearts with Nancy Lee-D-Maz for Thursday, November 15th.

Today's program might not be appropriate for younger children.

Our focus this week is purity.

It's one of the marks of genuine revival, and we've been looking at these characteristics

during a series called Seeking Helm, experiencing the joy of personal revival. Today, you'll hear from

Holly Eliff, a pastor's wife and regular contributor to revive our hearts. She and

Nancy are talking with Judy Starr. She and her husband share Christ around the world

with Campus Crusade for Christ, and she's written powerfully on the dangers of sexual

immorality. Here's Nancy to get things started.

Judy, you've written a book called The Enticement of the Forbidden. It deals with the whole issue of women and sexual temptation, women and infidelity. Now, when we bring up this subject,

I think some people initially think that's a man's subject.

That's a man's problem. But the fact is, it's not just a man's problem anymore, is it?

That's right. We live in a new paradigm now where women and infidelity is as much an issue for women as it is for men.

And I remember reading one statistic that indicates that nearly one in three

visitors to adult websites is a woman. So we're talking here about the issue of pornography as well,

not just a men's issue. That's right. It's quite surprising to most people, but that's truly

what's happening now. I think one of the most amazing things about that is that it's, the statistics are basically

the same for women in the church and for the lost world. And we're seeing that as a pastor's wife.

I'm seeing that in the counseling I do. Yet I think that most married women who are sitting in

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