Welcome to today's reading from Our Daily Bread. I'm Sheridan Voizzi and I've titled today's

devotional, Sister to Brother. When a leader asked if I'd speak with her privately, I found Karen in

the retreat centre counselling room, red-eyed and wet-cheeked-two years old, Karen longed to be married, and a man was currently showing her interest.

But this man was her boss, and he already had a wife.

With a brother who cruelly teased her and a father devoid of affection,

Karen discovered early on that she was susceptible to men's advances.

A renewal of faith had given her new boundaries to live by, but her longing remained,

and this glimpse of a love she couldn't have was a torment.

After talking, Karen and I bowed our heads, and in a raw and powerful prayer,

Karen confessed her temptation, declared her

boss off limits, handed her longing to God, and left the room feeling lighter. That day, I realized

the brilliance of Paul's advice in First Timothy to treat each other as brothers and sisters in the

faith. How we see people determines how we interact with them, and in a world quick to objectify and

sexualize, viewing the opposite sex as family helps us treat them with care and propriety.

Healthy brothers and sisters don't abuse or seduce each other.

Having only known men who demeaned, used or ignored her,

Karen needed one she could talk with sister to brother.

The beauty of the gospel is it gives us just that,

giving us new siblings to help us face life's problems.

Today's scripture reading is from 1 Timothy chapter 5 verses 1 and 2.

Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father.

Treat younger men as brothers, older women as mothers and younger women as sisters with absolute purity.

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