My sister is completely and utterly obsessed with my ex-boyfriend and the relationship that I had with him.

She has taken the obsession about my ex-boyfriend beyond any extreme I could have imagined.

So I had no choice but to go no contact with my sister and I haven't spoken to her in six years.

Then, six years later, my sister and my mom organized an intervention to try and surprise me and catch me off guard

and they brought my ex-boyfriend to the intervention even though I've been married for years at this point.

Here's what happened.

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Here's some background.

I started dating my brother's best friend when I was 16 years old.

We were together until I graduated high school when he proposed and I rejected him.

There was a lot of drama with my family asking me to reconsider because we could have a long engagement

or make a promise to reconcile.

My relationship with my brother who was 36 years old suffered for a while but the one with my sister

who's 32 never recovered. She was sure my ex was the best fit for me and it became unbearable

when she started dating my ex's brother.

My ex was invited everywhere by my siblings even to some family holidays.

But I didn't say anything since he was there friend too.

That is, until my sister started to push for us to get back together,

my sister did everything from trying to get us on blind dates to making a share room during

holidays. No matter the occasion, my ex was invited to it.

After a while I had enough and asked my parents to intervene.

They were clear with my siblings and stopped inviting my ex to things or allowing him to

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