How am I doing spiritually? Do I have a ministry? Have I discovered my gifts and my skills? What goals and

dreams actually I am best positioned right now to fulfill? Like maybe you wanted to write a book,

start a website, start a blog, a podcast. What are you waiting for? This is the time to build your life. This is not a time

only to fold your hands like this and to wait for somebody to come into your life while God is

giving you dreams, visions, and different things that you can accomplish today. The second thing

that you can do to save your marriage before it starts, and that is

deal with your demons. Deal with your demons, meaning deal with hurts, deal with traumas, deal

with strongholds, deal with your family history, the family of origin. Maybe you are demonized. You literally have demonic spirits attacking you at night

in your mind. Perhaps you're addicted. Perhaps you have certain things that are holding your back spiritually.

Deal with that now. Go get delivered. Maybe get some classes or perhaps see a counselor if that's what you need.

Go to a local church for a community where some of the stuff can be dealt with and addressed.

Deal with your character flaws.

If your parents, your siblings are highlighting a particular trait about you that makes you very

difficult to be with, deal with that. Do not postpone that to another time. You can save

your marriage before it starts by dealing with your demons. Number three, and I alluded to that just previously,

is set the boundaries with the opposite sex now.

Do not wait until you start dating.

Said boundaries with opposite sex now.

May you develop a reputation within your community as a person of integrity,

as a person that has no hint of immorality. You're not perfect, but you're in the pursuit of purity.

Let me ask you a question. Are you known to be a player? Are you known to play games with people's hearts?

Are you known to be that loose person?

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