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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Single With Married Friends & Struggling

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Religion & Spirituality, Default, Talk Radio, Christianity

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 22 April 2024

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Today on the podcast, I talk with Lauryn, who is struggling with navigating friendships in this season of singleness. She's single, but all her friends are married... and she can sometimes feel a bit out of place. She feels as though some of her relationships are becoming unbalanced and she called in looking for some advice. We dug a little deeper into her relationship history, and found out that unbalanced relationships aren't as new as she thought they were ... they are just a little more prominent in this season. I encouraged her to take ownership of her role in relationships, addressing and communicating her needs... and learning to bring balance to her relationships. The most interesting thing about our conversation is what it revealed about her (tune in to find out!) I think this is an important conversation for everyone to listen to, especially if you've ever felt the lack of balance in your closest friendships. Tune in now! Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She's written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She's also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Because it's definitely been tough to experience the dynamic of friendship change when a friend

0:09.5

gains a new partner, but I'm experiencing the loss of that friend of that same capacity

0:14.9

and am still single. And so nothing is seeming to like fill that sting of not being a priority

0:22.5

and I'm feeling like it's a very vulnerable place to be

0:26.1

like everyone else has priorities over friendship with their own families

0:31.2

and I just feel like I'm kind of stuck in between the cracks until I've met my husband

0:37.0

I'm in between the cracks until I've met my husband.

0:47.5

Are you ready to talk to me?

0:53.0

My name is Deborah Felata and I'm a licensed professional counselor, national speaker,

0:53.7

and author. Through my blog, books, and

0:55.7

podcast, I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally,

1:01.0

spiritually, and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic,

1:07.9

counseling-style sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my

1:13.4

guests and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor.

1:19.0

Each of these episodes is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing,

1:24.3

mentally, emotionally, spiritually and relationally, together. None of us are immune

1:31.0

to the challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk this path alone. I'm so proud

1:38.7

and honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are courageously paving the way for open and honest

1:45.6

conversations about their personal journey of healing. So if you're ready, let's talk.

1:56.0

Today on the podcast, I have Lauren from South Carolina joining me.

2:02.1

Lauren, it's good to have you.

2:04.2

Hi.

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