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Hey, hey, it's your favorite non-celebrity real-life festies. We're still struggling and having

fun in the dating scene. And we love to sit here and chat with all of you listeners and

swap war stories as we are all in the same trenches.

And, you know, we just want to dive deep into a real topic, which is something Thelma and I talk about regularly, which is how do you fill the time or the gray area when you're not

involved in a relationship?

And I just want to point out that at the end of the day, Thelma is my soulmate,

and I will always choose Slemy. And any other guy I date is going to be number two. And tomorrow,

Thelma is leaving me for two weeks. And I have to say, we're entering into a long-distance

relationship. And I begin to get panicked. But heart, have no fear. I am showing up on our

doorstep for New Year's Eve because we can't possibly not be together.

But the truth, the truth to be told is, is Thelma and I are really good at looking at our life like a huge, a huge pizza.

And dating is a slice of it.

But we have worked really hard to find fulfillment

and lots of things that find us joy and dating is just part of it and our whole life is not

about finding that partner so phelma what are your thoughts on this do you concur that this is

something that you and i have succeeded in doing i completely agree agree. And I think that, I mean, this might just be me, but I feel like often I, when I think about

the times where I might be wishing that I had somebody or I'm lonely or just wondering why I'm not in a relationship,

it's often a sign of something far bigger going on within me. And it really has nothing to do

with dating or finding the person. It's that something in my life is either off or I'm not,

I'm trying to, I'm thinking that if I find someone,

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