Well, some people are planners and other people are more spontaneous. And in your home, there's

probably both of those, especially in mom and dad. Now, I tend to be a planner. Danny, I know that

won't surprise you. I'm a firstborn, like to know the outcome. I like to plan. My wife, when I first

met her, said,

hey, we're in the mountains here of northwest Arkansas. Let's go find out where that trail goes.

And every bit of my fiber was like, show me a map. What's the safety plan? What's the destination?

How long are we going to be gone? I just want to know. I want to plan this out. And then I get to

relax along the way. So parenting has been a different kind of thing for us because I make the

plans and she directs my steps. Now, there's a bad twist on a scripture, but really,

Dean has been the more spontaneous fun mom, and I think that kind of

happens in some families. One parent is more spontaneous and, quote, fun, and the other is more

of a planner. It's fun for planners. It's just a different kind of. You know, those differences are

usually initially attractive. Yes. And then it can drive you crazy. You know, Heather is truly the planner of our home.

I'm much more spontaneous.

Let's go here.

Let's go there.

Oh, look, there's a trail.

Let's go explore that.

She loves to operate off the calendar at our home.

Dinner time, she'll say, guys, here's a calendar.

And we're going, oh, no, a business meeting.

But she wants to plan things out, and I appreciate that about her. And I've had to learn to see it from her perspective, that this is so important for our home, and she's been trying to

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