Simon & The Emotionally Stunted Narcissistic Father (Part 2) - Narcissist Apocalypse

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🗓️ 1 December 2023

⏱️ 40 minutes

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In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we have the return of Simon (March 15th, 2021 survivor story episode). Simon grew up with an emotionally stunted narcissistic father, and we delve into some stories about the construct that his father built surrounding his trauma and how Simon is the intergenerational trauma collateral damage. Plus, we discuss his mother's complicity and how the effects of that gaslighting still hinder him. *** We had some sound issues in this episode, so please forgive us. *** To listen to Simon's original recording, click here. If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

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0:00.0	On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talked to an abuse survivor named Simon about the reality his narcissistic father constructs and the complicity of his mother.
0:34.3	Music Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.
0:41.5	I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have the return of Simon. How are you?
0:49.1	I'm very good. Thank you. How are you, Brandon? I am doing well. Thank you for asking. And for those that don't know you, Simon was a guest on our March 15th, 2021 episode titled Simon and the emotionally stunted
0:57.6	narcissistic father. And in that episode, we discussed your fear of him in that episode, identity
1:03.5	issues that were created within you, you know, you having low self everything. And there were also
1:09.4	family adoption secrets in that episode as you and your
1:13.5	sisters found out that you had a half sister as an adult plus we discussed alcoholism rage
1:19.0	anger learned helplessness ADHD scapegoats we discuss nature versus nurture emptiness
1:25.6	parenthood being good enough and a lot more.
1:29.8	And we will leave a link to that episode in the show notes. And just one thing about it,
1:34.9	we did have sound issues in that episode for a bit. So when you go back and listen,
1:39.5	please remember that. And today with Simon here, we are going to, you know, kind of continue that
1:46.8	conversation a little. Simon wanted to talk a little more. And today, you know, we're going to
1:51.4	have this conversation about Simon's dad's construct and how he operates Simon's thoughts,
1:58.3	Simon's feelings about him, you know, the contradictions,
2:01.2	hypocrisy, the tantrums, and then we'll talk about the complicity of your mom.
2:08.8	And this is just going to be really conversational, kind of.
2:13.5	And now I'm just going to get out of my way and your way.
2:18.1	Simon, the floor is now yours.
2:22.9	So I'd quite like to talk about some more specific things about the way that my dad is.
2:30.9	I was a person, the things that he, I think I said in, when we talked before,
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