Simon Sinek: Not Every Friendship Is Meant to Last—And That’s Okay! (THIS is How to Know If It’s Time To Walk Away From Adult Friendships That No Longer Fit)
On Purpose with Jay Shetty
iHeartPodcasts
4.8 • 28.5K Ratings
🗓️ 9 June 2025
⏱️ 109 minutes
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Summary
Are you keeping this friendship out of habit or love?
If they weren’t in your life today, would you try to be friends again?
In this profoundly insightful episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty sits down with Simon Sinek, renowned leadership expert, bestselling author, and host of the podcast, A Bit of Optimism. Jay and Simon share a deeply vulnerable and powerful conversation about what it truly means to be human in a world that’s more connected than ever, yet so emotionally disconnected. Together, they explore the foundational role of friendships, belonging, and purpose in building meaningful lives and relationships.
Jay opens up about his own transformation and the early influence of Simon’s book Start with Why, while Simon reflects on the personal journey behind his body of work, emphasizing that all leadership is, at its core, about human connection. They speak candidly about how burnout often stems from loneliness, the fragile nature of adult friendships, the difficulty many have in celebrating others’ success, and the healing power of emotional honesty in relationships. With wisdom, humor, and emotional clarity, Simon breaks down how we can show up more authentically for ourselves and for those we love—even when it’s uncomfortable.
In this episode, you'll learn:
How to Support a Friend Without Trying to Fix Them
How to Know When It’s Time to Let a Friendship Go
How to Create Belonging When You Feel Disconnected
How to Celebrate a Friend’s Win Even When You’re Struggling
How to Communicate When You Don’t Know What to Say
How to Recognize Burnout as a Sign of Loneliness
This episode is a powerful reminder that being imperfect is what makes us human, and that real connection isn’t built on perfection, but on the willingness to be present, authentic, and compassionate.
With Love and Gratitude,
Jay Shetty
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What We Discuss:
00:00 Intro
02:26 How to Truly Connect with Others
03:45 The Universal Truth Behind All Human Problems
05:45 Why We All Really Just Want to Belong
09:33 Feeling Lonely? You’re Not Alone
12:10 Why Community is Disappearing & Why It Matters
18:33 Do Kids Really Need a Village?
22:17 Why We All Crave Safety
24:22 How to Find People Who Share Your Values
28:19 Understanding the Journey vs. the Goal
30:49 Knowing When to Persevere vs. Let Go
32:46 How to Know You've Outgrown a Friendship
35:22 Recognizing Why a Relationship Has Ended
38:08 Why Sincerity Beats Perfection Every Time
45:46 Learning to Trust Your Intuition
48:52 The Most Powerful Relationship Advice You'll Ever Hear
55:27 How to Share Your Wins With Friends Who Are Struggling
01:03:10 Stop Letting Insecurities Define Your Behavior
01:06:21 Can You Be Friends with People You Envy?
01:09:35 How to Respond to Skeptics with Grace
01:12:44 Your Worth Isn’t Measured by Numbers
01:15:45 Tune Into Your Needs, Not Others' Expectations
01:19:01 What Social Awkwardness Really Means
01:22:59 Real Communication Is About Understanding, Not Winning
01:29:44 Embracing Imperfection Is What Makes Us Human
01:31:40 Simon on Final Five
Episode Resources:
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Simon Sinek | Facebook
Simon Sinek | TikTok
Simon Sinek | YouTube
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