Hi, my name is John Kim. I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth many years ago and I've been documenting my journey ever since sharing my life

lessons and revelations. I believe in casual over clinical with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose

because self-help doesn't have to be so complicated.

Before I get to the three signs that your relationship will last I wanted to share a quick story and by the way

There's nothing calmer.

No that's not the word I want to use.

It's, there's another C word that there's

nothing that encourages creativity. I guess and calmness then rain, light rain,

especially if you live in Los Angeles and you're not used to rain.

Now if you live in Oregon, that's just another day and maybe what brings you calm is sun.

But here in LA, we don't get rain, so I don't know if you can hear in the background there is a light drizzle and my garage door is open and I'm watching the rain as I talk to you

And I feel calm I I feel very present, there's a crispness in the air.

I'm also describing you these things because I think it's important to use our senses. And so instead of just me pumping information into your ear maybe this is helping

you with mood setting with with

imagining rain or calmness or you know the landscape that I am painting

that I am painting that I am experiencing as I talk to you.

Okay, here's my quick story.

So my partner is away.

She's in Paris for eight days,

and I am watching our daughter and you know doing my work and what's interesting one of the things that I noticed

one of the revelations that I had was, and this just happened right before I came on, so it's fresh.

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