All right, team, how do you know that you're in a healthy relationship with an

avoidant person?

Or if you are the avoidant person, how do you know that things are moving in the right

direction?

We all need some progress points. We all need to know and be able to identify when things are moving in the right direction. We all need some progress points. We all need to know

and be able to identify when things are moving towards a more secure oriented relationship.

So this video is going to lay out some very specific points and markers, landmarkers along

the way that you can look for with you and your avoidant partner or as the

avoidant partner in the relationship. These are the sides. Before we dive in, don't forget to subscribe

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All right, let's dive straight in.

The first thing that you need to know and just be reminded of is that the avoidant person,

the avoidant partner, is really over-indexing on self-reliance and under-indexing on

relational trust, safety, and reliance. So the avoidant person kind of says internally that

the framework, the dialogue that's happening inside is it's safer to trust me and rely on me than it is to trust you

or the relationship. And so that causes the avoidant to pull away, shut down, close down,

not really sort of trust, not open up, not express sometimes. They might, if you're with an

avoiding person, you might feel like you don't really

know where they stand a lot of the times or how they're feeling about certain things or what they

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