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I've been married for 25 years, and I don't work at the time.

I'm taking care of my grandson, which my husband totally, you know, is on board with that.

But I get no money unless I have to ask for it.

And we are debt-free.

We owe nothing.

And I just feel like anything I say, he doesn't want to take my advice for anything.

Like I feel like we need to sell our house now because it's a bigger house and we don't really need all the room.

And we could sell this and we have't really need all the room and we

could sell this and we have a really good life I feel like um it's I don't know I just fuck his

daughter and said his wife oof uh how can we help well I just I don't know I mean what should I

like we ended up separating like two years ago and I found out it was actually what he was worth and we was worth like I don't know what I don't know. I mean, what should I? Okay, we ended up separating like two years ago, and I found out

actually what he was worth, and we was worth. Like, I don't know anything. If he was to pass away tomorrow, I wouldn't know what to do. I don't know what's in his bank account. I have no access to anything. My name's not on his business. My name's not on his debit, you know, a card. I can't use his debit card.

And we've been married for 25 years.

I'm like, you know, a card. I can't use his debit card.

And we've been married for 25 years.

I'm like, you know, and it really aggravated me when we separated because my attorney, you know,

gave me all this information on, you know, what he's got.

And I was just like, I feel like I deserve that, you know, more.

Where's the marriage now?

We're together. I take care of my grandson. I can work. I, you know, and I even said, do you want me to work? You know, I want you to take care of our grandson. You know, I think it's wonderful that we can do that. But if I don't get paid for taking care of my grandson, so I'm having to always ask him for money. Does he give you money when you ask? What's that transaction line? He does. Yeah, he does, but he only gives him money for what I need. Like if I'm going to get groceries, he'll give me like $200. I'm like, $200 don't buy anything, you know? and my fear is I'm going to get up to the counter and not have enough money and have to put everything back.

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