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The New Man

Should You Settle or Blow Up Your Life? — Tripp and Alyson Lanier

The New Man

Tripp Lanier

Self-improvement, Education, Business, Health & Fitness, Entrepreneurship

4.6644 Ratings

🗓️ 4 February 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life? Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship? And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change? Today my wife Alyson and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled, The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak. In this conversation we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling, and the one question that kicked me in the gut. In this interview: Living a split life “Stop being a spoiled brat.” Focusing on problems vs solutions Feeling guilty for wanting more out of life Plus: Have you outgrown your life? The Drama Triangle - Victim, Persecutor, Rescuer Shifting from bitching to focusing on what you want Are you defensive or curious? The fear of being broke and alone And: “Do you feel like you’re settling?” The myth: “I have to blow up my life in order to make a change.” Are you being lulled to sleep? Waiting for the perfect, safe plan The phone call that changed Tripp’s life Interviews and videos discussed: David Emerald interview Drama Triangle video You don't have to settle. Click here to learn the same mindset principles that Tripp Lanier uses with his coaching clients — including Navy SEALs, executives, and entrepreneurs. The Daily Toolkit is available for immediate download. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com//

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0:00.0

Before we start the show, I want to thank the thousands of you, the thousands who have read.

0:06.6

This book will make you dangerous. Many of you have told me that the book's unique way of exploring

0:11.1

fear, confidence, and purpose has had a lasting impact, that it's much easier for you to get

0:17.1

clarity and direction about what really matters and what you want to do in this lifetime.

0:23.1

It's also amazing to hear that quite a few of you have read it multiple times and even bought

0:27.7

copies for friends. So thank you again. Just in case you weren't aware, I created a free companion

0:33.6

video course for the book. And in these videos, I walk you through the big takeaways and practices

0:38.8

from each chapter. And I even cover some extra stuff that's not included in the book. Information on how

0:44.6

to access the course is in newer versions of the book. And if you own an older version of the book and you

0:49.5

don't know how to access the course, just hit me up via the contact form at triplinear.com, and we'll get you all

0:55.7

set up. And one last thing, if you're one of the thousands who have already read the book,

1:00.4

please consider leaving an honest review on Amazon so that others can decide if it's right for them.

1:05.5

Again, thank you so much for reading this book will make you dangerous, and now let's start

1:10.0

the show.

1:26.4

You are listening to The New Man, Beyond the Macho Jerk and the New Age Wimp. Your host is Men's Coach Triplineer.

1:32.8

Do you feel guilty for wanting more out of life?

1:36.8

Is it possible to outgrow your current profession or relationship?

1:41.0

And would you have to blow up everything you care about in order to make a big change?

1:45.0

Today my wife Allison and I pick up where we left off in the previous episode entitled

1:50.0

The Emotionally Constipated Control Freak.

1:53.0

In this conversation, we explore taking responsibility for what we want, the seduction of settling,

1:58.0

and the one question that kicked me in the gut by the way the last show you did a

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