Should You Reach Back Out or Let Them Go?
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 15 September 2025
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
It’s our final episode in this apartment before the big move, and Ilana’s type A side is showing in full force during the packing process. In between boxes, we answer your questions about dating and relationships. We talk about whether it’s a red flag if someone doesn’t text while they’re away, what to do when you can’t stop thinking about the guy who wasn’t ready, how to move forward when something casual is rekindled, and the timeless dilemma of craving sparks while knowing you deserve stability.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:05.2 | I laughed to myself before when you were going to get the laundry and I looked around and I had a realization that I haven't thought about. |
| 0:14.4 | Once we move, we have to unpack everything that we just packed. |
| 0:19.5 | Yeah, but you know what? There's not as much pressure to do it |
| 0:22.4 | day of, right? Like, we can put the boxes in certain rooms and like the second bedroom, |
| 0:30.0 | we just leave stuff in there and they could slowly take stuff out and start to organize |
| 0:33.6 | through the course of the week. Like Monday, we will not finish everything. |
| 0:39.2 | No, definitely not. It's going to take, honestly, it's going to take a couple weeks. |
| 0:42.5 | Berkeley, you've had all day to squeak that ball and you choose this moment. |
| 0:46.1 | Are you serious? |
| 0:47.7 | All right, guys, if it wasn't clear, we are currently sitting in like a three foot spot on our couch that is not covered by boxes |
| 0:57.0 | and things. |
| 0:59.7 | You know what you could do maybe? |
| 1:00.6 | Maybe take like a quick video and do the voiceover of this part of you saying that. |
| 1:04.6 | That's a great idea. |
| 1:05.4 | And then at least that's the trailer for this episode since there's no video of it essentially. |
| 1:09.6 | I'll take a video right now. |
| 1:10.5 | Yeah, we had to pack the equipment. Um, but we said, even though we're packing everything, we are, |
| 1:16.2 | we are still going to do recording. We are making co-hosts for life happen amiss the chaos that |
| 1:22.6 | is our home right now. It is crazy in here right now. It's insane. It's absolutely insane. Um, been packing since like the minute we woke up this morning. And I don't know. I can't tell I can't tell if we're in a good place or not. I think we are. I think like these type of things like come together really fast towards the end is how I feel that. But to be fair, I will say, I've never had this much stuff. |
| 2:07.3 | I've always lived with roommates. Yeah. It's always been like communal stuff. So everyone had a piece of the living room, essentially. And I don't think I ever had the majority of it. Like, I was never the person that's like, I'm bringing so much stuff. You still don't have the majority of it. No, I mean, well, it's ours. Right. But stuff-wise, this is a good question, other than like furniture and whatnot, which is like ours. |
| 2:10.8 | But like what do you think is the split of the stuff percentage-wise? It's got to be like 98% new and 2%. |
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