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Seeing Other People

Should We Give Second Chances? Full Q&A Episode

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 20 April 2021

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

We love when you ask us questions, so we're taking up a whole episode to answer as many of them as we can! We're answering questions including:

 

Do people deserve second chances?

How soon is too soon to have sex?

If we didn't kiss on the first date, is it doomed?

How do I ask someone to put effort into planning dates? 

Why do people lose interest?

Do guys still ask to be official?

Plus long distance, pandemicships, DTR, and more! 

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0:00.0

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0:05.5

com.uk-Uk slash Wondery. That's audible.combe. This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:17.3

Hey, guys. It's Alana. And Jonah. And welcome back to another episode of seeing other people. Dating sucks. Dating sucks. That's what we used to say. That is what we used to say. Now we don't say that. We don't. But dating does still suck. It can still suck. Of course it does. Yeah. Dating still sucks. Nothing's changed. Dating still sucks. What's going on in your world, Lana? My world. Dating doesn't suck that much right now in my world. I actually have a big day. This is coming on on Tuesday. I have a big day tomorrow, which is Monday, because we're recording this on Sunday. But by the time this comes out, I will have gone through a meet the parent situation. Wow. Yeah. What are you guys doing to meet? What's the, how's it going down? I'll let you know. I'll report back.

1:05.2

You know, like, how do you mean the parents? No, I will let you know. I think. You don't know what the plan is? Well,? Well, there's a little bit of like both parents happening at different times in different settings. So we're like figuring it out. Okay. Yeah. Suspicious answer. Okay. Well, I don't have all the answers yet. We're figuring it out. Okay. What about you? What's going on with you? Not too much.

1:28.7

Very busy Sunday.

1:30.8

I did start my day off at McCarran Park.

1:33.9

I've been going there to start running because I'm trying to get in peak physical condition.

1:37.8

If you guys are following the senior people AMA, you could see my perfect running form, which it is perfect running form.

1:45.0

I mean, clearly I did track in college in high school, middle school, and pre-K.

1:48.7

Yeah, okay.

1:50.2

Yeah, obviously kidding.

1:51.5

And by the way, if you're a single person living in Brooklyn and people sometimes ask us,

1:57.4

like, where is, can I meet people?

1:58.8

Like, go to McAren Park.

2:00.1

Holy shit.

2:01.2

It's just a bunch of attractive, cool, seemingly, seemingly cool people run around the track,

2:07.0

playing with dogs, having a picnic. It's a great place to single and mingle. I like how you

2:12.7

corrected yourself from cool to seemingly cool. But my question is like what actually defines somebody as cool?

2:19.5

What makes a person cool? Totally. And I think cool to a lot of people has different meanings.

2:23.8

Everyone has a different understanding of cool. I think you and I are aligned that cool doesn't,

2:27.6

the less cool you are, the more cool you are is the way I see stuff. And if you're in McCarran Park, I think it's safe to assume there's a base level of cool.

2:39.3

You know, you are akin to the self-awareness that is living your best life out in Brooklyn,

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