This is the Ramsey Call of the Day, part of the Ramsey Network.

Mary joins us up next.

She is in Fort Worth, Texas.

Mary, welcome to the Ramsey Show.

Thank you so much for having me on.

I appreciate it.

Absolutely.

How can John and I help?

Well, I have a question, and I hope it's a can John and I help well I have a question and I hope

it's a simple answer so I have two boys one is already in the second year in college

away from home and my second one is going to be graduating in May he has decided to

attend community college to avoid debt with that said I. With that said, I totally support him with that.

With that said, his, I'm recently remarried for about a year.

So my new husband feels that I sort of baby him.

And he feels that once he graduates in May, that I should be starting to charge him rent.

I'm not totally in agreement with that, but I don't know if that's just the mom in me saying that,

or does he have, I guess, a good side of it that I'm not seeing?

I think we're conflating two separate conversations here.

Okay.

So one is the skin in the game, the kids going to college, the, hey, you're an adult now,

and making adult decisions, let's have adult conversations that are going to be different

than we had when you're in high school.

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