Should I Marry Him/Her? 5 Signs You Shouldn’t.

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 4 February 2020

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Should I marry him? Today’s caller is having some doubts in the relationship she’s in. She’s not sure if she should just fight through, or if she should just walk away. When do you know that the doubts you’re facing are normal doubts, and when do you recognize that there’s something going on that might be a signal that you need to walk away from this relationships? In Love In Every Season, I explain that sometimes the problem is in YOU – and sometimes, the problem is in the relationship. It’s important not to simply ignore these doubts, but instead see them as a signal that something needs to change. Should I Marry Him/Her? 5 Signs You Shouldn’t Get Married In today’s episode, we’re talking through 5 signs that you need to step back from the relationship, and instead, take some time to deal with what is going on from the inside out. If you find yourself wondering “should I marry him/her?” then this episode is for you. If you’re not dating yet, I challenge you to tune in and recognize these signs so that you don’t find yourself struggling in this type of situation. Subscribe on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts, and then tune in to Episode 57 of the Love + Relationship Podcast. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY – iHEART RADIO Love + Relationships Podcast Notes: Is your relationship Healthy? Find out! ORDER DEBRA’S NEW BOOK: Love In Every Season! For other great episodes of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out: Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing? Summer Is When Things Get Hot: On Intimacy Colors of Fall: Questions To Ask Your Partner NOT Assume Winter: The frost of Apathy and How To Deal With It FREE QUIZ: IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP HEALTHY? MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book a session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,
0:23.8	and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating, singleness, and marriage.
0:30.4	For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time, I'm a licensed professional
0:35.1	counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.
0:38.4	I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the message
0:44.9	that healthy people make healthy relationships.
0:48.5	If you've tuned into the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people
0:53.6	call in or write in with their
0:55.1	relationship questions and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized
1:00.1	answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email or
1:05.6	voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page, true lovedates.com slash love and
1:13.0	relationships. And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get
1:17.6	started. Today's question comes from Louise from San Diego. Hey, Deborah, I'm having doubts about the relationship I'm in.
1:30.5	How can I tell if I should fight through because it's real love or walk away?
1:41.3	Love conquers all.
1:43.8	That's a sweet phrase that we often hear, right? But is it true? Does love actually conquer all?
1:51.4	You know, we put this cutesy little phrase on posters. We hang it on our kitchens. We preach it from our pulpits. We put it on our bumper stickers. But I think this phrase is being misinterpreted, you know, and sometimes we apply it to wrong
2:05.6	relationships.
2:07.1	When I think about this phrase, love conquers all, I really believe the root of this phrase
2:12.6	is coming from 1 Corinthians 13, where we see the true definition of love.
2:17.4	And if you look at 1 Corinthians 13, where we see the true definition of love. And if you look at 1st
2:18.4	Corinthians 13, where love is broken down into action steps, actions that you take to show love.
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