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Hi.

Hi.

What can I do for you?

I have, um, it's kind of a long story I don't know where to start I know

would you put you back on hold so you could take some time to think about how you want to present it?

No, I think I've got a clear question is like I just need some advice on my situation if I should stay with my

What is your situation?

My boyfriend slash baby daddy I guess you would say we have two children together. We're not married and

we we're not married and we are constantly on edge with each other fighting are just the love isn't there he is 34 years older than me so we have a big

age gap and I just want my peace I think but I don't know.

I think your children want their peace more than you deserve yours.

But what does that mean?

That means stop acting like a spoiled brat

and realize that every time you're fighting with him

and making a big deal and being dramatic,

that you're damaging the children.

So you created this family with him. Now you have to do your best to make it peaceful for the kids.

Not for you. You made the choices which put you where you are and put these children where they are.

So your moral obligation now is not to search for your peace,

but to provide them with theirs.

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