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Subject, should I give this man a second chance?

Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm 33, and I'm having a hard time dating black men.

I'm running into the wrong one, so I won't say that all black men are a trip.

I was dating a guy that I met on a blind date.

He was married to a white woman for four years, and I could see why he's divorced.

I shouldn't have kept dating him

after our first date. He's very confident and cocky. He brags about working out all of the

time and he loves talking about his two cars and his new small home. The house is nothing

to brag about, but I was happy for him and helped him decorate the

house. Three months into dating, he wouldn't talk when we went on date. He said that I overtalk him

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